If you’ve been raised in purity culture, sex can be incredibly frustrating and you may be tempted to fake an orgasm to make your spouse happy…but don’t!
In this episode of The Scarlet Virgins Podcast, Rebecca discusses why it isn’t a good idea to “fake it” in your sexual relationship with your spouse.
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#27 – 10 Tips for Dealing With A Sexually Frigid Spouse
Purity culture often reinforces frigid behaviors that already are impressed upon women when it comes to sex. This leads many spouses to confusion and sexual frustration.
In this podcast episode of The Scarlet Virgins, Rebecca offers 10 Tips for Dealing with a Sexually Frigid Spouse.
I did not have the energy to write out a post to accompany this like I mentioned in the podcast but all the content is within the podcast. I am still looking for a Christian sex therapist to recommend, when I find one I will update this. 🙂
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In early December, our family was flown out to California for me to speak at the Virtue in the Wasteland Christmas Party in addition to recording a podcast with them which you can find here. It was an amazing trip and I miss California and the folks from Legacy 1517 and ViW so much.
Here is the live recording of the show, I hope you enjoy the whole show.
The Scarlet Virgins Episode #26 – Discernment in Recovery Groups
For folks who are recovering from childhood abuses (legalism, physical abuse, cults, etc), recovery groups seem like a good resource for recovery. But are some recovery groups worse for you than the thing you were originally recovering from (or at least compounding the trauma)? Kicking wounded people while they are down?
In this podcast episode of The Scarlet Virgins, Rebecca shares her thoughts on why we need to use discernment when it comes to these kinds of communities.
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Scarlet Virgins Podcast Episode #25 – Interview with the author of “Sexy” – Dr. Jeff Mallinson
In this episode, recorded live in California at Professor Mallinson’s home, Rebecca interviews the author of the book “Sexy” about finding erotic virtue in perplexing times.
Among the things discussed: the “sin of Onan,” Prostitution, Sexual Assault, Victim Blaming, Hollywood, and Christian Sexual Ethics.
Listen Online here at the bottom of the page or by going to The Scarlet Virgins Podcast in iTunes (subscribers will already be notified of this episode being released, but it may take a few hours for it to show in iTunes – I apologize for the inconvenience.
I am so thankful to have been flown out to California for the Virtue in The Wasteland Christmas Party and Family Reunion. While there, I was interviewed live at the party and also recorded two podcasts. Here is the first one where both Jeff and Dan interviewed me about my book, the current sexual scandals, and my thoughts on the hashtag #churchtoo.
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